and years to work it out. but when i married wyatt, i knew it was for life. my dad wanted you to re-establish contact with your mom? yes, he was a great help in th that. she then had something called hysterical blindness, which you re not blind but you re psychologically something happens so that you can t see. i felt, why was i afraid of this sad person, you know? who was so gentle. i mean, she was like a butterfly, you know. when mom s mother for the