That you are abandoning anyone, or that you are doing a disservice to other groups. You can do both, you know . And its important to focus on yourself sometimes. And im not sure that there is one answer. A lot of the things that were talking about sort of go toward this point. There may not be a solution that allows you to strike the balance that you want, but that you can invest and engage in all kinds of different struggles and work toward making things more equal. And you are, if youre asking these questions, youre already doing the work of balancing, right . If youre already considering how does a voice are not get how does my voice not get drowned out, how do i work for other people but not let my work for other people in some way silence or diminish my own role here, these are questions that i nate t these are questions that resinate social movements that are in process right now. Youre already doing a lot of re alr i regret that theres no time to address but i love the fact that