for the first two years of their marriage their careers kept them apart. toni in mississippi, harold in colorado and when toni was finally able to move west to be with harold they suffered a lot of fertility issues and had miscarriages it was a sadness to her. reporter: back in mississippi, toni s brother todd and sister-in-law rhonda were also struggling to have a baby but then after years of disappointment for both couples, all their prayers were answered. we both ended up pregnant at the same time. reporter: that must have been a really happy time given what you went through to get there. absolutely. all of sudden, you know, good news here, good news here, and, you know, get ready because, you know, you re going to have a houseful reporter: in june of 2005, toni and harold welcomed their baby girl, haley by then, todd and rhonda already had anna kate. when the girls were a little over a year old, the henthorns