give me some horrible trait of a first born. they re perfectionistic. many of them become flaw pickers. what makes you a good dentist or statistician or math teacher is the same thing that works against you in relationships. you re a man. you re lucky enough to have a wife that cooks dinner. they re getting hard to find, by the way. you come home to dinner and you find the flaw and you say, hey, what s with the carrots? i ve got news to you. the question is, will you be wearing carrots shortly? it s not to be rewarded. the critical eye gets the first born in trouble sometimes. i m going to stop being such a perfectionist. please. i ll just eat my carrots. dr. kevin lehman, great to see you here. the book is called first order book go out and buy it and taunt your relatives. thank you. you re welcome. they were quick to throw support behind obama care, so where s hollywood now that the rollout