hi, my name is a preschool teacher. we recently started wearing pronoun pins and the kids get to pick a new pronoun pin every some picks she/her every single day and some change it up. i m a nonbinary preschool teacher. i use they-them pronouns in the classroom. they do not all get it and that is okay. thought me being poly was crazy but not only that, they know i am gender fluid. i m going to give you my explanation about what it means to be transgender, as well. so when babies are born, the doctors look at them and they make a guess about whether the baby is a boy or a girl. kids as young as three or four are aware of their gender identity even if they don t have a language for eight. pre-k through third grade are not ready for such topics is actually internalized homophobia entrance phobia.