completely in his control when it got worse. the intruder told her. i have bad news for you. i m going so have rape you. tied up. blindfolded, she pleaded with her captor not to do it. he got very quiet. then the man who terrorized her for hours suddenly seemed remorseful. he said, i m sorry about this. you know, i ve been through this too. he offered some helpful home security advice. he recommended i get a dog so i could have protection in the future. so he s advising you how to keep this from happening again. yes. it s incredible. it is. it s hard to believe. i agree.