this one was forwarded to me by deb burlingame. her husband was killed in 9/11 as a pilot of the pentagon. your elbow is the strong theest part of your body. if you get in trouble your elbow is of use to you. and women in particular get into their cars and especially when we are shopping during the holiday sho holiday season. we do our makeup, look for food, look at the packages. that s when you are most vulnerable. get in the car and go. don t sit there. trouble can follow you. don t forget a flashlight is a good weapon. a flashlight in somebody s eyes is effective. we did a segment on that. and god forbid if you are in a car under his power. don t let him drive you to a second location. if you have to drive into something, something to consider. not hard-core advice.