the minute they were given a way to say okay this put it behind us, they jumped on it and enabled it as you are pointing out. so let me ask you about your situation because with whitney, your ex-wife, you called her hundreds of times when she was missing. phone was dead. hundreds of times, desmond, you call her. her mother calls her you write every single day until her mother died. no answer. but even though and and then, right before you are about to publish the book, right, you know, she she suddenly get to talk to her and she is the one who delivers you the threats of don t don t do this, don t don t write the book. and yet, since then, you have been able to speak with her and your son has been able to speak with her. so, did speaking out did the book help do you think? and by the way, i would imagine you still don t know exactly where she is. she is not allow todaed to come you or her son or to leave china, wherever she is. definitely, the book helped