issue with. i don t see why equality has tod be proven by living identical lives. that s basically what herng argument is.nd jane? well, life is not fair and the women have to work. men have to work as well. so what sheryl sanberg is sayinr and the reason for her success that she says in the book isandb because her husband partnered with her.e i think what she s a lot of people don t have that. a lot of women are single sheryl sandberg did not represent the average women in america. she s billionaire n. average woman can possibly relate to her world. don t sell her short. it s not about selling her short.r s yes, you are. she had to work to get to where shehe is. when men and women are successful, they attribute it to different things. if you ask men why they did a good job, they ll say, i m awesome. if you ask obviously. why are you even asking?n if you ask women why they did a