if you add 16 pounds to this girl she is in no way obese. i think we have to remember that she is a child, after all. and just for full disclosure i am kind of a health fanatic, when i watch my nieces eat macaroni and cheese from are the box i go i think she is making her feel that the most important thing is how she looks. that is such a bad message that we ve all go gotten at some point in our lives. jenna: the mother admits she let s her daughter eat a corner of a coffee cake because she simply wants one as well. she is brutally honest about it. you re a mother, what is your