bystanders who say nothing, we want to turn those bystanders into up standers so that s our initiative. tyler had recently come out and was obviously going through issues, sicyr bullying issues that he probably didn t talk to you about. no. so it s often hard for somebody to reach out, they don t want to bother somebody else, even a close family member. also we thought something about that transitional time, he wasibili wasibility wasn t really acclimated into the society of rutgers. so that time was very difficult. i also want to bring in jeremy hatch, a friend of mine, a navy s.e.a.l. got wounded on a mission to try to rescue bowe bergdahl. you have mentioned your