she just she had a brain on her. reporter: different than the women you had dated before? the majority of em, yeah. yeah, she well, for instance, what she did for a living programming. i considered myself a little bit of a computer nerd. but compared to her i didn t even know what a computer was. reporter: dave reconsidered ob his no commitment rule. a rule he d broken before with a woman named amy flora. they had two kids together. but it didn t last. after 12 years, you would think there would be some kind of a proposal or something. but like i said, he s kind of [ laughter ] emotionless. so reporter: he really didn t wanna get married? no. and i wanted to eventually be married, you know. i mean, every girl does. reporter: well, i mean everybody wants their fairytale wedding. reporter: amy and dave stayed friendly for the sake of their kids. and amy knew about dave s other women. heard about cari. reporter: you expected you would meet her at some po
didn t seem so important not then. not like it would later. just as they walked into the apartment, the doorbell rang. it was dave s ex-girlfriend liz, here to pick up some things she d left behind in his apartment. awkward, but cari just laughed. bowed out. she said, ah, i i get it. it s not a big deal. i i m gonna go home. you call me when you re done dealin with this mess. reporter: so dave escorted cari to the door. and her and liz passed each other at that moment. there were no words spoken. reporter: did it start then, at that moment? later, once liz left his apartment, dave called cari. and she invited me out to her place. which was, like, an hour drive outside of town. cari, when i got to her place we re there 20 minutes makin coffee, b.s.-in . and of course pretty soon we re on the couch. and and we re gettin a little closer. now, at this point, we haven t