Abusive men isolate their women. And you have been isolated. In a true poll lick mist family you would be united as sisters. He has pulled you apart from each other and your families. I want you to hear from me today. You are in an abusive relationship. It doesnt mean that you are being beaten up. It doesnt mean that you are cryi everyday but he is isolating you as part of his system. So when you say that you want him to try and make it better, he wants you two to be important apart from your family because he said it today. And each other. Its not going to work. When did i say i wanted them to be when did i s that . [applause] kirk you said it was more important for the children to be with you than with yes, it is im not trying to tear them away from their family no i personally taken a break from my family because i can i talk . Because i actually was married yall heard that at the beginning of the show that i was going through a divorce its not like i have not to do it the god way,