activity. see what he does he? pulls himself in like two or three times. he starts smiling. that was a genuine smile. he gets a little bit anxious. that s when he starts pulling his chair in a little bit. bill: when you start to fidget in your seat, you call it displacement and i call it fidgeting in your seat that means? you are getting rid of nervous energy. showing you are still in control of things. he does that by being able to move his own chair and put himself in a place that hicks him feel comfortable. bill: how you can tonya reiman tell whether the smile is sincere or not. he has to smile. he has to laugh a little bit or he looks like is he a mean guy. so, how you can tell? well, you are looking for the signals for the changes in muscle. do the eyebrows go down do the cheeks raise? do you see the gum lines does the lower eyelid go upward? see how the cheeks are raised there in. in neutral pose again. you will notice that the cheek literally raise up.