and i said, do you like bon jovi? and she s like, i love bon jovi. and she was like, my boyfriend looks like bon jovi. gregg wasn t taking classes, but pamela was a serious student. i was having some problems in a few classes. and she and she would take me to the library. she d have index cards. she d have everything prepared. and she taught me how to study. how was pamela around gregg? what what did he bring out of her? even though he was shy, she was also you know, they were just very sweet and kind of cozy. by the time graduation rolled around, pamela and gregg were engaged. they went home to new hampshire, got married. gregg cut his hair and got a job with his dad selling insurance. pamela, who dreamed of being a tv reporter, got a media job with a local school district. you kind of had it all together at 20, 21 years old. yeah. i was trying. i thought i was doing all right. amy imagined a big future for pamela. i knew that she was going to do great things. an