Memorial pieces left on the graves of beloved family members were dumped on a bench after they were banned by Chislehurst cemetery. Molly Elizabeth Eley, 22, laid the ashes of 67-year-old gran, Lesley Haddock, to rest in Kemnal Park alongside her grandad last October after she died from a stroke. The family has had “nothing but aggravation” since, battling with staff over what they can and cannot place on their plot. On Sunday, Ms Eley arrived to find a pile of memorial pieces scattered randomly around a bench. Ms Eley, a Greenwich-based gas industry worker, said: “It is absolutely disgusting behaviour.