He had to be on a horse. With this kid, he had to be the kid going to college, as opposed to some kid who didnt deserve to be shot. As a family, you have to deal with both of those thing. You want to deal with the humanity of your child, the kid you remember who made mistakes, who didnt clean his room, late to school. Whatever it might be. At the same time, you dont want to watch the media demonize him. Thats hard. The mother said he was mine and as a parent it sent chills up my spine because im yelling and screaming around the house all the time. I told you to do this 18,000 times. You didnt do it or you did something at school or whatever that wasnt appropriate, and at the end of the day, those three are mine. I dont care what happens, and if thats taken away from me, thats going to be a hole forever, and so shes struggling with that, and he will never be perfect but in her eyes hes hers. Thats right. Hes her baby. Charles blow, mark lamont hill, l. Z. Granderson thanks so much. The