define your life. so often i wou goo da to day thinking that i sby wastigmatiz by the fact that i lost my dad on such a natural catastrophe. and i think that i would just say to other children who have lost a loved one in an act of terrorism, to say that this isn t at is going to be themp most important thing in your life. it will be something that is very important to you but there are so many other beautiful things that will define you. i see you nodding your head. you agree? i agree. my mesge would be for give. it s not the end of the world no and you know what, you can t live your life be an upset and mad all the time. talk more about that because i think those are words that we all need to here, not only america but the world meet to hear. why do you say for give and don t le your life be and that all the time? it s just it weighs you down. it s not a way to live life.