it weren t for me being who i am she wouldn t have will the life she had. so we re connected by the spirit. did you ever feel amy like there was something out there missing, tugging at your heart that said i got to figure this out? yeah i mean, i think every adoptee feels that way just from having been abandoned at birth but also once i knew about my parents child before me in the back of my head there was always a voice saying i need to find that person. yeah. how did you find out? i was about nine years old and my brothers were playing football in the backyard and i came out, i was a tom boy, i was wearing a football jerusalemry and one of my brothers said, you know, girls doesn t wear football jerseys, why don t you