kids kids. for a week we re e-mailing who is going to cook what you reconnect with people. and connect in a way which you don t anymore, sam sifton. in the day and age everything updated on facebook. this is irl holiday, in real life, texting away. checking his e-mail about four seconds ago. no, adam was talking. new york city i m kidding. we used to have this tradition in america where we would gather on sundays for a sunday dinner. we don t do that anymore. we gather once a year and love it or hate it because of creepy uncle don. i think we can deal with creepy uncle don and we should be doing this much more often. great thing about thanksgiving it offers us the promise we could do this quite often and have a good time doing it. why don t we have multiple thanksgiving. quarterly. you could do that. they are called dinner parties.