shocking is we think about hate crime. we hear the word hate crime, and our first thought is race or ethnicity or religion. but given some of the language and it s still very early. we certainly don t know everything. but liz, given some of the language about gender and the gender narrative, at least from the alleged shooter himself at this point, it made me think, i wonder if we re constantly missing the ways in which crimes against women or perpetrated on behalf of these gender expectations are also hate crimes of a particular kind. i think that is something that women worry and think about constantly as they assert themselves in a narrative of, i would like a seat at the table. the thing i kept coming to is this is a 22-year-old man who clearly his whole life has felt rejected. by women, by other peers. so as we as this unfolds and