ge gentle feeling of family, and they were having their kids. so, i did feel a little bit like it was a new generation [ laughter ] which it was. now i was 16 when anderson was born. there was not enough time real lu for us to all be together. and so it felt like two different families in a lot of way ways. i think that my dad helped my mom learn what a parent was supposed to be and learn what a relationship with children could be like. when you were born i was sure it was a girl. you really warranted a girl? ah! i was meant to have daughters. i won t take it personally. there was a fertility drug then illegal to get in the