Crying. He said mom, its really, really bad. He said theyre saying that i killed a cop and then the phone just went dead. Whoa. It was really awful. I dont think ethan and i could stand for quite a long time after that. We both sat here on the floor in this room and just cried and cried and cried. How did this happen, they wondered . The parents were involved in both their childrens lives as they grew up in this San Francisco neighborhood a few blocks from the pacific ocean. We took family walks. We have sunday family dinners. We were very involved in sports, you know, pta at his middle school. Ethan coached soccer, helped to coach baseball. So we have been and are still very close. Their son fin went to rome on Summer Vacation after wrapping up his first year at san diego mesa college. He met with his old friend, gabriel natale. Gabe tried to buy cocaine but a pusher gave him italian tylenol instead. Offduty cops broke up the transaction. The Young Americans ran away, fin grabbing the