is this the singular event that started to turn your life around? no, there were a lot of things but that was one thing. six months later my son, we came back from a hunting trip and he was in the driveway and he said that i can t stay here anymore i m in a go live with my brother and he said, that hit home for me that i wasn t hiding too much from him. he must ve known you were addicted. yes, from some of the kids from 16 down they don t remember. my daughter once said were very dysfunctional family. i said i don t know what that means but don t say it again. that sounds horrible. my son hit me with that and in december of oh eight something really happened that was important to my story. my friend came to me and he was my equal. we had both done cocaine in the 1980s, we were both functioning addicts throughout