it is a perfect storm. i m going down with the ship. stephanie s friend, jennifer, was driving when the verdict came in. i was in my car, yeah, parked on the side of the road, crying like a baby. and, like others who knew stephanie, she wishes now she had taken her friend s secrets more seriously. i beat myself up over it every day, about how i should have done this or should have done that. an almost good marriage with one deadly flaw. lot of stephanie s close friends and family didn t even know what was going on. i knew of a couple of events over the years. and let s say it was only two. it only took three and she s dead. and so, say her friends, take some advice. heed the warning. don t hide the secret. that s why i m talking about it now, and hopefully just one