Both expressive and asserti assertiveness for boys and girls. I dont disagree with that. I think you ask t you should try to develop your child in all of the lessons and try to develop the creative side as well as the side of your child that is interested in building and construction. I would love to see that, but i am saying the child is going to go his or her own way. You can give a little girl a fire engine or a daughter gave the daughter a toy train and he came downstairs and she was playing with the train and said daddy, i am putting it to sleep. You try as best as you can to get your child to develop in another direction, it doesnt always work. The child comes with a nature and knows who he or she is and there is only so much you can do. If children are too wild we have to calm their natchurnature. We want boys to become gentlemen and we have to influence them. But that doesnt mean turning them to girls. That will not happen. They will find ways to avoid it. It is futile to attem