for example, the vietnam veterans wall. my dad fought in vietnam. he had an experience with agent orange that affected his life and still affects it today. mike, there are 58,318 names on that wall alone and when you stand and look at that wall, you can t help but think of the lost potential, the lost futures. i feel that when i look at it. i think about my dad, and obviously, if he were on that wall, there s no me, my kids aren t around. there s such a depth to a lot of families in this country for what memorial day means. you know, willie, first of all, the wall is overwhelming, just by itself, overwhelming to look at all the names and to be there and see people finger tracing the names of loved ones lost or friendships ended in vietnam. and the agent orange effect on people still today, that was mentioned by mara, and i m sure it affected your dad.