clayton: is it possible, possible, that perhaps women have a higherren flighted sense of themselves? guest: i did a lot of research talking to men after writing an article where i insulted them, and they said to me, it is not us, it is the women. so i did give both sides, women are entitled, they re hypocritical, gold digging, and it is really a problem of finding decent women. alisyn: you have a warning for women, that many of us spend our 20 s working on our careers and trying to get somewhere and we should focus on finding adult men because it gets too late for women. guest: that sometimes happen. in the 20 s that is a time you get your career started and it takes a last time and energy. but, the other major thing you have to do in your 20 s is figure out your personal life.