tom: tony had so many different sides to his personality. i mean he could be tough, he could be a raconteur, he could also be incredibly kind, big-hearted, and an emotional person. sometimes all in the same interaction. which was sort of crazy. i remember in our philippines episode, tony joins for a family meal. erik: family scenes were some of the most magical moments that we captured in the show. one of the most incredible ones for me was with my grandmother, a filipino wan named aurora medina who raid me. tom: and this is i think the first christmas aurora has been back in the philippines in 40 years. erik: after the meal, aurora came over to tony and started singing edelweis. todd: this is the song that she sang to erik as she was changing his diapers i believe, you know?