a post baby body call more realistic. i really wanted to show women that you can love your body before and you can love your body after. her photos are now drawing comparisons to maria cane, the mom of three whose bare abs and blunt what s your excuse photo caption led to a firestorm of reactions with many accusing her of fat bashing. i m not a bully. she is saying the ideals are unrealistic and unhealthy and wants to encourage women to love their bodies at any size. health is not dictated by someone s look, size or their weight. but she says she is simply a healthy mom trying to be a positive role model. so is there a right or wrong answer in this great mom debate? i think we have to be careful in our society not to characterize something as normal or not normal. beautiful or not beautiful. reporter: bianna golodryga, abc news, new york. i know i m beautiful. i love my body.