tim mcdonald fell in love with deion and married her, even though he knew her sentence and knew her crime: murder. it was just so particularly bad with the dismemberment. but tim didn t care and soon ended his 32-year marriage and started a new family. he s a goodm man. today, tim is devoted to the woman he loves, despite family disapproval. when you re incarcerated, you feel like everybody hates you. larry: pam booker, tim mcdonald, james whitehouse, all married to people in prison. james, of course, is now a widower. we have the former public information officer for san quentin state prison for many years there.