fallen to below t 90 degrees, ad amber does not speak, and prior to that, she had just become frantic, and she was pulling out tubes and things, so the doctor asked me to stay there and keep her calm, which is what i was doing. i had been with her since 6:30 in the morning. and what i was doing was just keeping her calm, and i am pretty much her advocate for communication and decision-making, because she is nonverbal. tucker: patients need advocates and all of us have seen loved ones left without advocates in the hospital, you never want to leave a loved ones, ever.us so they arrested you. what did the hospital say? nurses are nice people, did anyone say this is outrageous and you should not be arrested for staying with your daughter? the nurse came in and said visiting hours are over at 7:00, and i asked her to please