we have enough that do exist. i thought it was much ado about nothing. look, i know you don t want to talk about it. this is why this is the reason i wrote the book. this is why you have conversations with people who don t look like you so that you can have a degree of comfort with them to be able to discuss these things and you know their intentions. so as i always say and i ve said to you since i met you, and you know that, if you don t have a friend who looks doesn t look like you, you re not doing it right. i hear you. look, i got a lot of black friends, but none like you. i tell you why i thought it was relevant, one, always happy to talk about what i say. i m more inclined to talk about what i do versus what other people do when they want to talk about what i said. say. but we ll leave that to the side. people don t follow these issues. the reason i thought meghan markle was really impressive to me was, one, talking about your pain ain t easy. it s not. even