level he expected of himself, mike went on disability. he was really starting to face it and try to understand how his life was going to be with ms. which only added more stress to his marriage. i m sure my brother was going through incredible emotional turmoil about his physician condition. maybe that was the reason mike began waking ellen up in the middle of the night to vent his anger. there was yelling and demeaning and calling names and telling me how worthless i was. he didn t want to necessarily have the big fights in front of elizabeth, so he would wake me up at 1:00 or 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning. and yell at you? and yell at me. of course, she was careful not to tell her colleagues. she feared if she showed a
which only led to more stress with his wife. maybe that was the reason mike began waking ellen up in the middle of the night to vent his anger. it was yelling and demeaning and calling names. telling me how worth louseless . he wouldn t necessarily want to have the big fights in front of elizabeth. ellen was boss to a bunch of men. and she feared if she showed a single chunk in the emotional armor, she would never be effective. it s all about the woman thing. and they won t respect you anymore? right. but she did say now that mike was sick she d be there for him, as she d promised, through the good times and the bad. she asked to see him through