the apartment complex. edythe called to check on denita. and she wasn t answering. which was you know, after i call your phone several times as a best friend, you know, somebody s going to call you back. so i was like, that s strange. so my instinct just said call jermeir really quick just to touch bases with him. reporter: by now jermeir stroud had left work and was racing to durham. i spoke to jermeir. and i m like, have you made contact with her? but i felt like i didn t get a definite answer. it seemed like there was a little bit of confusion. what do you mean? like when i said, did you speak with her, and he didn t really give me a yes or a no. he just sound a little rushed like, edythe, you know, just sit tight. stay calm. i m sure, you know, we ll get to her. t reporter: also rushing to get to denita was her mother, sharon smith, who was driving to durham from charlotte. you re thinking this is an accident. uh-huh.
you know, why you felt you had to step out, don t understand. you don t hurt the ones you love. reporter: the divorce rate in this country would suggest that we hurt the ones we love all the time. that s true. but it s kind of bad when you going into the marriage being foul. not saying that it s okay once you re in it. but you would just like to think, you know, you re starting things off right. reporter: edythe kearns was barely beginning to process the loss of her close friend, and now had to cope with something else she had never imagined. i was just sad. and i was hurt. and i was in shock. just disbelief. because i had nothing bad to say about him. reporter: this wasn t jermeir? yes, i mean, that s exactly more or less how i felt. it was just like a nightmare, like this wasn t reality. reporter: denita had trusted jermeir.
danita s family to mourn their loss. once again, here is josh reporter: they called it a home-going service, the final farewell to 25-year-old denita smith, who had departed this world under the worst of circumstances. just a week earlier denita s mother, sharon, was starting to plan her daughter s wedding. now she was attending denita s funeral. no parent wants to see their child laying in in a casket. and denita s life was it was snatched from under her, stolen. reporter: it seemed the whole town turned out on that january day in 2007. denita s close friend, edythe kearns, spoke at the funeral. the home going was an emotional day. it was definitely some sadness. but we were trying to, you know, be happy and think about her spirit and life legacy and the way that she would want all of us to go on. but at that time, i think it was just too much and it was