foot out. and they were happening around the same time. i still had my apartment and we were engaged now. he was asking me to redecorate his main house and move into the ecb building downtown where my best friend was living at this time. while the decorations and the remodeling had been done on sweetser, these conversations with happening how to build our future together and how we were going to move forward together and i you know, i would have forgotten about the extent that we had those conversations early on in the engagement if it hadn t been for my therapist s notes. if it hadn t been for what? my therapist s notes at the time when i was talking to her about that and my conversations