and my wife wanted to put it under the window because children need fresh air i had a big problem with that couldn t tell my wife why so we had pretty hefty arguments about it which we were only able to resolve when i understood why i was so afraid and so worried by anything here and don t have a. skid the windows can break they can break if there is a pressure wave behind them and if the bombs are dropped you get pressure waves. on the. i grew up in a country at war in the one nine hundred eighty s. most windows in iran were covered with tape with a cross over the tape so that the window wouldn t shatter if a shockwave came but would fall down in one piece that had been the talk will accomplish i ve been. called to food on the idea that my baby could be in this cot below the window and the pain could shatter and break that frighten the life out of me and of course once my wife understood where this fear came from she couldn t