this is a case built on lies and deception and cat and mouse. who knew what it was? but the story when it began back in 2005 was about love. or what certainly felt like it. in fact, fair to say it was two kinds of love. there was what happened to ben when he met melissa. as soon as he met melissa, he was something i had never seen. just, you know, just for no reason he d kale her and say i love you. reporter: he was a changed man. absolutely.s he was happy. melissa really made the difference.ss reporter: and if anybody would know, his best friends would. cindy and scott graham.d ben was family. i mean, he was family. reporter: and then there was ben s other love, brightest r thing in his life, the one good thing that came from his first marriage, alyssa. everybody said that he loved me more than anything. and i think it s true. reporter: quite true, of