in my 50s, i m done. i m like she looks great and holy cow, she s 45. jennifer lopez is 45 but she looked beautiful at the oscars on sunday, period. no age qualifier. her gown with the deep plunging neckline was awesomely appropriate. it would never be included in the beyond category. that felt good. if you want to vent more head to my op ed at cnn.com/opinion. check out carol at cnn. i ll be right back.