mr. wilcox had a chance to do the same. he could have escaped, but he chose to stay and confront the danger. he had a concealed weapon. the kind of man he was with his mother debra wilcox and his sister. i m so sorry for your loss and i appreciate you taking the time to be here. tell me about your son. what was he like? he was your average, normal kid. i can call him a kid, i keep forgetting he was a 31-year-old grown man. he liked going to the movies, he liked to go four-wheeling with his sister. he loved helping people, which is what got him into this. he helped his grandparents all the time. just a good kid. c.j., what do you want people to know about your brother? um, he was a protector. i mean, he was one of the people i trusted most.