ranging ages four to 12 to look after. how do you tell the children? that was i think to this day that is the most difficult thing i ve ever had to do. i believe i called the schools and let them know i would be on my way. lindsey, the only girl, was the eldest of the lovelace kids. i remember being at school and getting a call at the office that i was getting pucked up and i thought maybe my mom is in the hospital. she didn t feel good the day priorer. it s fine. but once inside the prunsple s office, her father broke the news. and told me my mom died and i remember then on my world crashing down. did you say what happened? i m sure i asked what had happened. i just remember crying and not believing it and so we left and