more of a put you back in your place, right, because you are a woman because you have risen up to this position and does this kind of a guys club and we want to make sure you understand where your spot is, right? i think to some degree, but i also felt that some men did not know how to actually communicate with a woman other than talking that way. again, i don t name names because i was lucky that it was a teaching moment for me, that i found my voice to say knock it off, this isn t right. it was a teaching moment for him as well and if he hadn t changed his behavior, if i was offended for many years after that it might be a different story, but he did, and that is what is important, that people stand up, be empowered, and say enough is enough. martha: you look at the industries that this has spanned, women speaking out on capitol hill. they have to be a lot of men that are very worried that one day one news story could ruin