schedule. but going back to the school will not indicate any sort of return to normalcy as students and faculty will be greeted by armed deputies and support counselors. i wasn t ready to come back, but at the same time i think it was time. i wasn t ready because i wasn t i didn t know what to expect. it s kind of hard. molly: we would like to bring in darby fox, a child and adolescent family therapist. thank you for being here. thanks for having me. molly: this could be a very emotional, difficult week for a lot of people and those that do choose to return to that school, what sort of challenges are they facing, not just this week but in the weeks ahead? well, as they face this week, it will be kind of a long week but it is probably time. they ll be anxious to sort of get back there. they ll feel some community, some relief from being together
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like a fish. neil: just amazing. darby, i m thinking they were very matter of fact, describing what they saw. they are not ever, ever, ever, going to forget that. for them, it s like the norm. what do you think? they re not ever going to forget it. part of the matter of factness comes from the fact they ve never experienced it before. we learn through experience. the best is always doing it ourselves. if you can remember, you always have to do it on your own, even though someone told you to do something differently. that s very common, especially with adolescents. they haven t seen it before and they really don t know what to think, like you can t predict a dead body or the piles of blood. and it s going to take a little bit of time to settle in with these kids. but they re going to suffer some trauma from this. neil: that s what i m saying. i m sorry if i wasn t clear. i was amazed and it says something about the age in which we live, how calmly, surgically they went through and
saying f trump while they cut his head open. what s wrong with these people. joining me to discuss is darby fox. i want to start with these drowning video. they didn t even call police. they didn t throw him a line or call 911. what is that about? it s very alarming. the man wasn t found for five days after. it s as if they were watching a video. ed the live scene of the man drowning was a video in front of them. there is no connection with reality. ess is that the video game sect teens have because they are so engaged with that virtual world? it stems from the video game world and it s gone further in recent years with instagram live
saying f trump while they cut his head open. what s wrong with these guys. joining me now to discuss is psychologist darby fox. i want to start with the drowning video. they were so callous. they never called police. they just posted this video of the man drowning on youtube. they didn t throw him a line or call 911. what is that about. it s very alarming. the man wasn t found for five days after. it s as if they were actually watching a video. they were taking it in the lives scene of the man was a video in front of them. there is just absolutely no connection with reality. jesse: is that like a videogame effect that teens have because they re so engaged with that virtual world. it is, it stems from the videogame world and i think it s gonna few steps further with things like instagram live and