it wasn t until he hooked on to the steelers that he became a force. he was told you are not good enough. he was kicked around. he probably doesn t want his kids feeling entitled and special like the players he was around. i think a lot of kids at that level have been told they are pretty special. i think they are. i think these nfl players are special. they are the most elite athletes in their field and i believe they deserve recognition. i had tough dancing coaches and they would say winning isn t everything, andrea, it was the only thing. and that was the mentality i got and a lot of times i failed and went and tried everything. i don t like the everyone gets a trophy. at the super bowl you don t get a runner up trophy. and how do ye o you strike t fire in young people by saying