now are parenting at home. he talks about how he was essentially homeschooling his kids. quite different from live shows every single night. that has been the thing. when this all started, gary and i tried to make a conscious decision to not make our shows all about it. you know, everybody everywhere you go, but it became just a necessary thing to discuss, because it s reality. so it has been very interesting to see how all of these dads who, you know, who are used to living a completely different life, and really only see their house once a year, and how they have all reacted to it. everyone is different. everyone has benefited in some ways, not in other ways. all of us, though, do agree that it s a trifecta that s terrible.