stigma. how? in that they say please help our poor, unfortunate relatives. please help my son. please help my sister. it implies that, well, i don t have the disease, but everyone else does. and it s a fact that everyone has this disease. how do we flip the script? how do we change that? let me tell you. you create a curriculum starting in gind erkindergarten that tea children an emotional hygiene like you would with physical hygiene. a kid gets hair lice and it s cool. why isn t he freaked out, anxious? feel like he s an outcast? because socially, it s been accepted. mental dis-ease and the discussion of emotional intimacy, talking about how you feel so there s no shame, what all of these boys have in common is that they were isolated, outcasts, and alone.