people give some concerns to settle conflicts, instead of going to a counselor and go online and have random strangers solve your marital disputes or couple disputes. we even have some examples. that s right. here is conflict number one from the site. my wife throws away my favorite underwear without approval. underwear aren t supposed to be air conditioned. i tried to explain that men are not like women and we actually enjoy a broken in pair of briefs. true. they put this up on the website and now, anonymous people, you can go to the website and you basically vote and you referee their conflict. and you also suggest things as well? i think in your commentary, you can then suggest answers and solutions to this, maybe there s some sort of common ground that they can assume. maybe she s buying tons of shoes and says okay, if you don t buy so many shoes perhaps i ll buy more underwear. and the couple go ahead. would your wife go for this. my husband would be i m listening