absolutely everything. and dale and stephanie it turned out had their share of secrets. but the weird thing, one chilly morning, six weeks before stephanie was murdered. as stephanie told her friend, jennifer. she heard spanking. she told me she counted at least eight spanx before she got up the stairs and down the hall to the kitchen. my boy was acting out far beyond the norm. i said, come on. that was a wednesday morning. stephanie was furious about the spanking and stormed off to work and that very day was laid off from her county job. and then, still upset with dale, stephanie went to see a judge and filed a restraining order against him. saw advice from her friend bill. honestly, i was a little bit surprised. i had never detected any major problems in the relationship. but, and this was distinctly odd, she asked the court to delay implementing the order until the following monday. then she went home and said dale suggested that family holiday. we had a wonderful week