martha: you make so many great points. i have was just reading a little bit more about knigh michelle knight. she was somewhere between 18 and 20, when she was abduct ned this case, and she had lost custody according to one report i read of a young child and the thinking was oh she s taken off. and nobody would believe that she hadn t just taken off. her mother kept saying that she just simply did not believe that was the case and she persevered in look for her nor a very longtime. you raise a great point, you know, but how do police make that judgment about whether or not it s a kidnapping or whether it s something else? it s a tough call, and i say to cops aupl th all the time, because i love cops. i go on record again, i love cops. i say, why? why in wrong minute because so many women do maybe take off or whatever. so many women murdered in this country in the last 50 years didn t run away and they were never looked for. i say you re literally, by