with a child. this means that i have and will commit to someone that is interested in raising one and that relationship to me by the time the child arrives would be a healthy and happy relationship. here is how it works. new websites like coparent match .com specialize in pairing up dreams of building a family in a private environment much like an online dating website after months of getting to know one another they decide whether to share a life long commitment not to each other but the future child. the concept is raising a red flag for conservative and religious groups who argue this is the wrong way to raise a child. two people who are not married do not live together, do not have a sexual relationship, why would we assume that they going to agree on the parenting of a child? and why would we assume that the child will be happy bouncing back and forth from one home to another?